I didn't have sex until I was clear of symptoms for 3 months. I wanted to follow my Dr's advice as well as the advice from the FAQ section of this site---also to be honest---I wasn't feeling very confident and was in no mood to have any kind of sexual relations within these first 3 months.
This sexual relationship after 3 months of being clear, lasted less than 2 months because the girl I was seeing, moved to England. We used condoms each time, and are still friends today. She has never mentioned anything about an STD nor do I suspect she has had any issues. I'm very confident given her openness and honesty, that she would have mentioned it to me if anything had occurred.
After about a year of being clear, I was in another relationship that lasted about 3 months [this time it was me who moved]. I was pretty adamant about using condoms every time, but my girlfriend would get irritated by the latex in the condoms and convinced me to skip the condom a few times. I decided to go back to using condoms---despite 3 dr's advice that after 3 months of being clear, everything would be ok---because I still wasn't confident about the risk of spreading infection. We are still in contact via facebook today and I have No suspicions that she has had any issues.
Currently I'm in a new relationship which I think will last for a while. We began being intimate over 3 months ago. It wasn't our brightest decision but the first time we had sex [over 3 months ago] we didn't use a condom. The next day we decided we should use condoms going forward. For the next 2 months we diligently used condoms, avoiding all genital contact without using a condom. After 2 months of this, we decided she would go on the pill and for the last month we have not been using a condom. It has been roughly 14 week since we had unprotected sex and she is symptom free.
So to answer your question, No, none of my sexual partners has had any issues nor am I expecting or worried that they will be. I believe the 3 Dr's I've consulted and the advice of the Dr. H listed in this sites FAQ section.
Each situation is different as is each person's body. My advice would be to wait 3 months after being clear, make sure there is no uncomfortable genital itching [which is a symptom of an active virus], see a Dr if you haven't already, and use condom's until you are more confident and comfortable that your body has successfully suppressed or cleared the annoying virus.
Keep your head up, Toronto girl, you'll be fine; just like new, ha. I was helped by some great people on this site when I was in your shoes, so I hope to pass along the info and my experiences to help others who have similar concerns. Let me know if you have any other questions.