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Vividangel1984 H-ercules Poster


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Posted: Sun Feb 15, 2009 1:58 am Post subject: I miss sex |
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I haven't had sex in over a year. I miss it  |
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timmmaaay New User

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Posted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 2:25 pm Post subject: |
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| I second that! |
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Optimist H-elper

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Posted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 6:37 pm Post subject: |
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It's been 8 months and counting for me by choice. I'd like to have sex, but I'm now waiting for the "right person."
I have a friend who was just diagnosed with herpes and continues to have sex and without telling her partners. You should be proud of yourselves for having integrity and restraint!  |
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Vividangel1984 H-ercules Poster


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Posted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 7:04 pm Post subject: |
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| Oh wow, and I was angry that my ex didn't disclose to me about his genital warts * and gave them to me. I can't even imagine what I would do if I had herpes. That is far worse!!! |
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extraordinarily stressed Super H-elper

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Posted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 7:51 pm Post subject: |
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16 months and going out of my mind...its really beginning to mess with my self perception. I know that no malice was intended, but you may want to rethink posting views categorizing conditions as better or worse than each other. Statistically and realistically speaking there are plenty of people who come to this board who are dealing with more than one condition (including HSV), and by doing so you're effectively telling them that at least you're not them.
Just something to think about... |
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Vividangel1984 H-ercules Poster


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Posted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 9:14 pm Post subject: |
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I didn't mean to offend. I do have a friend with herpes, and I know that she gets at least one outbreak a month. I'm not saying that I have it easier than her or anything. I'm simply stating the fact, that I would be very angry if someone knowingly infected me with herpes.
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Vividangel1984 H-ercules Poster


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Posted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 9:15 pm Post subject: |
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| edit: This has nothing against the people who have herpes on this message board. They are a victim just as much as I am. |
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moment_in_time H-ercules Poster

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Posted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 3:20 am Post subject: |
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Or a Survivor.  _________________ Find a person who loves you for exactly what you are.
Good move, bad move, ugly, pretty, handsome, what have you.
The right person's still gonna think the sun shines out your ass.
That's the kind of person that's worth staying with. -'Juno' movie |
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jjw New User

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Posted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 9:54 pm Post subject: |
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| How come you guys have not had sex? Have you had warts for months then? |
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popsicle New User

Joined: 28 Feb 2009 Posts: 3
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Posted: Sat Feb 28, 2009 8:18 pm Post subject: sex too painful |
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I did not have sex for a year. Partly because it was too painful but also for fear of infecting other people. I then went back to the person who gave it to me and slept with them a bit, but it's a nasty situation as he's benn abusive. Fells like being stuck between a rock and a hard place.
I miss sex and intimacy a huge amount but at the same time go out of my way to avoid it so I don't have to tell anyone. |
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PolyphenonE H-elper

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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 5:08 am Post subject: |
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| jjw wrote: | | How come you guys have not had sex? Have you had warts for months then? |
Yep. I've had warts for about a year. The same warts too!
My stupid doctor told me that I should just wait it out till they disappear. I listened to her!!! It's been a year! I even went back to her a few time since and she told me to just wait!
I have only recently discovered this forum and found that I can treat the warts quite easily (with ACV)! Which is working great!
And yeh I way MISS SEX! I keep meeting heaps of great girls, getting their number and not following it up a all. And I work in a male dominated industry and everyone keeps asking me why I don't have a girlfriend or why I'm not getting any..
...but I will wait till I'm completely wart free and with no re-occurrence for at-least a few months and then think about getting involved with someone.
oh and popsicle...don't put up with that shit. You shouldn't cop that sort of abuse in exchange for wanting intimacy. |
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